I think you were like second or third picked perhaps, but first pick in my heart
So first off idt we should tell anyone our partners, just to be safe, perhaps in the future to gain allies or trust or w.e. But at this point idt people are telling so I see no reason to.
omw, is your tribe really that bad? Mine has been pretty active so far and I like a lot of them, so in case of some swap or something maybe you can stay safe with them